My Body, I Can Say Stop
My Body, I Can Say Stop
Model refusal and stopping; for necessary care, the adult explains, proceeds gently, and notices the child's response.
Today's Approach
Amara is about 2 years and 2–3 months old. Keep each activity to 3–8 minutes. Looking, pointing, making a movement or sound, saying one word, staying quiet, pausing, or declining all count. Use only the poster and audio; do not require repetition, performance, touch, or eye contact.
A4 Teaching Picture
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Goals
- Chinese: hear “我的身体属于我” and “我说“停”时，成人会暂停” during shared picture talk.
- English: understand
My body belongs to me.andWhen I say stop, the adult pauses.with picture support. - Early maths: point one-to-one to one ball, two books, and three flowers in the bottom strip.
- Relationship: the adult follows Amara's attention without turning shared observation into a test.
Materials
- Only the A4 teaching picture above, printed or displayed full-screen.
- The English audio below.
- No cards, toys, food, containers, or other real objects are needed.
1. Chinese Picture Talk
Time: 5–8 minutes.
Say, “我的身体属于我。”“我说“停”时，成人会暂停。” Model each sentence naturally once, then leave quiet looking time. Amara may look anywhere, point, make a related movement, vocalise, or say one word. Quiet, pausing, and declining are equally valid.
Do not ask a chain of questions, correct pronunciation, request a whole-sentence repetition, or direct where she must look.
2. English Time
Time: 3–5 minutes.
Download today's English audio
Transcript: English time. Listen, look, or point. My body belongs to me. When I say stop, the adult pauses. One ball. Two books. Three flowers. All done.
Play it once. The adult may point gently with the audio. Repeating, memorising words, and memory checks are not tasks.
| English | Chinese | Possible response |
|---|---|---|
My body belongs to me. | 我的身体属于我。 | Look, point, move, vocalise, or say one word |
When I say stop, the adult pauses. | 我说“停”时，成人会暂停。 | Listen quietly, pause, or decline |
3. Early Maths: 1, 2, 3
Time: 3–5 minutes.
Use only the separate bottom counting strip: one ball, two books, and three flowers. Move one fingertip once while saying, “One, two, three.” Do not count the main picture, text, or decoration, and do not require number words or numeral recognition.
4. Shared Attention and Language Expansion
Time: 3–5 minutes.
If Amara offers one word, receive it and naturally add one or two words. For example, when she names something in the picture, say, “I heard you,” then model the related short sentence. Expansion is not correction, and she does not need to repeat it.
5. Choice and Safety Boundaries
Time: 3–5 minutes.
If Amara turns away, pushes the screen aside, stays quiet, or says no, respond, “You want to stop. We will stop.” Do not use scores, rewards, comparison, or repeated drills. When the picture involves weather, plants, animals, roads, water, hot items, or body care, use it only for talk; an adult remains responsible for real-world safety decisions and necessary care.
Development Note
Two-year-olds learn mainly through shared attention, movement, sounds, and a small number of words. The adult offers stable, short, meaningful language without bringing forward print drills, KET preparation, memorisation, or question practice.
Gentle Bedtime Recall
Time: 3–5 minutes.
- Say once, “我的身体属于我。”
- Then say once,
My body belongs to me. - Accept looking, pointing, moving, one word, quiet, pausing, or finishing.